Too old to celebrate Valentine’s Day? Never!

If you think Valentine’s Day is just for the young, think again! True, deep love is timeless, and Valentine’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the connections we cherish – whether romantic, familial, or friendships that have stood the test of time.

At Tafta, we believe it’s never too late to find love or celebrate the love you already have. As we age, we become increasingly aware that there are only a finite number of days left. And they are most joyfully spent in the company of those we love, doing things we love.

No matter how old we are, we deserve to love and feel loved – and Valentine’s is a perfect reminder that companionship, kindness, and affection are always within reach. Here are some simple and affordable ways to embrace the spirit of love and togetherness this Valentine’s Day.

1. Write a love letter or note to someone you love

In today’s digital world, a handwritten note carries a special warmth. Write a heartfelt letter to your spouse, a dear friend, or a family member. Reminisce about cherished memories, express gratitude, or share words of encouragement. This simple gesture can brighten someone’s day in the most meaningful way, leaving them feeling loved and appreciated.

2. Share a meal

Good food and good company make for a perfect Valentine’s celebration. Whether it’s a homemade meal, a shared picnic in the garden, or a simple tea party, enjoying a meal together fosters warmth and connection. If you aren’t able to cook where you live, consider a ‘bring and share’ get-together, where everyone contributes something small like a plate of biscuits or some store-bought sausage rolls.

3. Watch a movie together

Revisit classic love stories by watching an old favourite movie or listening to music that brings back fond memories. Whether it’s a romantic film, a favourite golden oldie, or songs that remind you of your younger days, this can be a great way to reminisce and bond with loved ones.

4. Craft a small gift

Handmade gifts often mean more than those that are store-bought. Create simple crafts such as personalised bookmarks, homemade cards, or framed photos. These keepsakes can serve as a reminder of love and appreciation.

5. Pick up the phone

If distance keeps you from spending the day with loved ones, a simple phone call or video chat can make all the difference. Catch up with family, friends, or reconnect with someone you haven’t spoken to in a while.

6. Take a stroll down memory lane

Look through old photo albums, reminisce about cherished moments, and share stories with those around you. Revisiting happy memories can be a great way to relive moments of love and joy.

7. Celebrate friendships

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love – it’s also a time to celebrate friendships. Organise a small gathering with friends, enjoy a cup of tea together, or simply spend the day laughing and sharing stories.

8. Don’t forget self-love

Love starts with yourself. Take a moment to do something that brings you joy, whether it’s reading a book, enjoying a hobby, or simply taking time to relax and reflect on the love in your life.

At Tafta, we know that love has no age limit. Celebrating Valentine’s Day with our elders helps improve their mental well-being, reduces feelings of loneliness and isolation, and re-enforces emotional bonds with their neighbours and caregivers. Love really does make the world go round! And the best love stories are the ones we continue to write every day.